Borderline Personality Disorder: 12 Common Symptoms and Causes<\/p>\n
By: Rachel Despres on Tuesday, February 13th, 2018<\/p>\n
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a mental illness that affects about\u00a01.6 percent\u00a0of adults in the United States alone.\u00a0According to the NHS, it is the most commonly recognized personality disorder, and affects a person\u2019s thoughts and feelings about themselves and others.<\/p>\n
Those who develop BPD tend to begin exhibiting signs by early adulthood. The condition generally worsens as they move into young adulthood, but can get better as they age. Read on to learn about the 12 most common symptoms and causes of BPD to be mindful of.<\/p>\n
\u00a0Symptoms<\/p>\n
1. Fear of Abandonment<\/p>\n
People with BPD tend to have a strong fear of being left alone or abandoned. Regardless of whether such abandonment is real or imagined, the individual may go to extreme measures to avoid possible separation or rejection.<\/p>\n
For example,\u00a0HelpGuides.com says\u00a0someone with BPD may \u201cbeg, cling, start fights, jealousy track your loved one\u2019s movements, or even physically block the other person from leaving.\u201d Unfortunately, these behaviors may cause loved ones to withdraw, resulting in exactly what they feared and were trying to prevent.<\/p>\n
2. Unstable Relationships<\/p>\n
BPD tends to make maintaining healthy relationships very challenging. This is because the affected individual tends to be quite needy, intense, and mistrusting, not only with romantic partners, but also with friends and family.<\/p>\n
Additionally, a person with BPD tends to have a very black and white way of thinking about people, seeing them as \u2018all good\u2019 or \u2018all bad.\u2019 This causes frequently shifting attitudes towards others that range from \u201cextreme closeness and love (idealization) to extreme dislike or anger (devaluation),\u201d\u00a0says the National Institute of Mental Health.<\/p>\n
3. Unstable Self-Image<\/p>\n
People with BPD also struggle with identity disturbances. Sometimes, they may feel good about themselves, but others times they may feel hatred toward who they are, perhaps seeing themselves as bad or evil. Additionally, this self-image can change depending on whom the person is with, as they often copy the actions and behaviors of others because \u201ctheir ability to be independent and autonomous is very impaired,\u201d says John Oldham, MD, professor of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at Baylor College of Medicine in Houston,\u00a0in speaking with Health.com.<\/p>\n
They may also have constantly shifting ideas of who they are or what they want in life, resulting in frequent changes to \u201cjobs, friends, lovers, religion, values, goals, and even sexual identity,\u201d\u00a0indicates HelpGuides.com.<\/p>\n
4. Impulsive, Risky Behaviors<\/p>\n
Impulsive, risky, and often self-destructive behaviors are also common for those with BPD. These behaviors can include gambling, spending sprees, shoplifting, or \u201csabotaging success by suddenly quitting a good job or ending a positive relationship,\u201d\u00a0says the Mayo Clinic.<\/p>\n
In some cases these behaviors may even put the individual in danger, such as by driving recklessly, practicing unsafe sex, abusing drugs or alcohol, or binge eating. While engaging in these activities may help them feel better in the moment, in the long run they can do more harm than good to themselves and their close relationships.<\/p>\n
5. Self-Harm and Suicide<\/p>\n
Self-injury is another common symptom of BPD; in fact,\u00a0the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health says\u00a0that \u201cup to 75 percent of people with BPD self-injure one or more times,\u201d commonly by cutting, burning themselves with a cigarette, or an \u201coverdose that can bring relief from intense emotional pain.\u201d<\/p>\n
While in most cases these self-harming behaviors are non-suicidal, that isn\u2019t the case for everyone, as the source says, \u201cabout 10 percent of people with BPD take their own lives.\u201d<\/p>\n
6. Intense Mood Swings<\/p>\n
Another common symptom of BPD is emotional volatility, with intense mood swings that range from extreme happiness one moment, to despair the next. These mood swings can be triggered by things that others would simply brush off or not even notice, such as \u201cif a colleague was too preoccupied to say hello in the hallway,\u201d\u00a0says Health.com.<\/p>\n
While these mood swings tend to pass fairly quickly, typically lasting only a few minutes or hours, in some cases they may persist for several days at a time.<\/p>\n
7. Chronic Feelings of Emptiness<\/p>\n
People with BPD may also struggle with chronic feelings of emptiness, like \u201cthere\u2019s a hole or a void inside them,\u201d\u00a0says HelpGuides.com. In extreme cases, the source says that individuals may feel as if they are \u2018nothing\u2019 or \u2018nobody.\u2019<\/p>\n
Because this feeling of emptiness is uncomfortable, they \u201cmay try to fill the hole with things like drugs, food, or sex.\u201d While these things may offer temporary relief, nothing seems to make it go away for good.<\/p>\n
8. Explosive Anger<\/p>\n
In addition to extreme mood swings, people with BPD may also struggle with intense anger. Although such anger is often triggered,\u00a0Health.com says\u00a0they \u201creact in a way that seems exaggerated or disproportional to an event.\u201d<\/p>\n
These reactions can include \u201cfrequently losing your temper, being sarcastic or bitter, or having physical fights,\u201d\u00a0says the Mayo Clinic. Although this anger is most noticeable when it is directed outwardly toward others,\u00a0HelpGuides.com notes\u00a0that people with BPD spend a great deal of time being angry at themselves.<\/p>\n
9. Paranoia and Dissociation<\/p>\n
Paranoia is another common symptom of BPD, where an individual may have \u201csuspicious thoughts about others\u2019 motives,\u201d\u00a0says HelpGuides.com. As a result, they may struggle to trust others.<\/p>\n
In some cases, often when under stress, people with BPD may also experience dissociation. In such a state,\u00a0the National Institute of Mental Health says\u00a0they may \u201cfeel cut off from oneself, seeing oneself from outside one\u2019s body, or feelings of unreality.\u201d<\/p>\n
Work Cited Entry<\/p>\n
Despres, Rachel. Borderline Personality Disorder: 12 Common Symptoms and Causes.\u201d ActiveBeat, 12 Feb. 2018, www.activebeat.com. 11July 2018. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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